How did it start?
Throughout my life, I often felt like I was merely going through the motions, living on autopilot or survival mode. It was as if I was a passive observer of my own existence. However, it was during times of challenges, whether through transitions or losses, that I found the courage to step out of my comfort zone and truly challenge myself.
In the face of adversity, I not only discovered hidden resources and resilience within myself but also realized that these transformative experiences, though sometimes painful, compelled me to make significant decisions. Amidst my struggles, I uncovered the profound truth that with the right support, resources, and guidance, we have the power to change our lives for the better and become the leaders of our own journey.
Motivated by this realization, I began investing in my personal development. As I embraced the knowledge and practices gained from my training, I felt a profound calling to utilize them to make a positive impact on others. Simultaneously, I became acutely aware of the growing gap between the life I was living and the life I envisioned for myself.
This marked the beginning of a dream—a dream to transition from a career that no longer fulfilled me and create a livelihood aligned with my values and deepest aspirations. It was a calling to bring my own unique contributions to the world.
My journey toward my authentic self
At the age of forty-eight, after spending twenty-three years immersed in the world of finance, I made the bold decision to leave it behind and transition into the realm of life coaching.
It was a pivotal moment that affirmed my commitment to dedicating the next chapter of my life to a meaningful profession.
Little did I know that this choice would not only lead me through a professional transition but would also unveil hidden treasures and guide me along my true-life path.
Embarking on this conscious journey towards my authentic self, I venture onto a path that is accessible to the hero within each of us, waiting to be embraced as soon as we wholeheartedly commit ourselves to it.
The decision to change my life
“All transformation is change, but not all change is transformation.” – Jack Mezirow
When I embarked on my journey of transitioning from being an employee to becoming an entrepreneur and a Life Coach, I initially believed that this career change alone would suffice to bring about a profound transformation in myself and my life. However, I soon came to realize the profound wisdom encapsulated in Jack Mezirow’s quote.
Through a tumultuous path, marked by significant losses and hardships, I made a profound commitment to my personal growth.
As I underwent my certification process as a Transformational Coach, I quickly learned a crucial lesson: sustainable change requires embarking on a transformative journey where I must fundamentally shift my perspective on my own identity, expand my perception of what is possible, and tap into resources beyond the confines of my own mind.
I came to understand that dismantling my internal limitations and engaging in a profound inner transformation were indispensable steps along this path.
By undertaking this deep inner work, I gained the ability to make intentional choices and decisions that truly aligned with my authentic self. I discovered that the key to my own transformation lay in empowering myself to become the leader of my own journey. This process, known as self-actualization, requires a deliberate transition from an externally driven existence to one that is internally guided.
That’s why, after experiencing the painful loss of loved ones, I felt compelled to press the pause button on my life and my transition. It was crucial for me to grieve my losses, make a significant shift on my perspective and break free from the inner barriers that had held me back throughout my existence, keeping me trapped in an unfulfilling life. I could feel that I carried within me the remedy for my healing.
And prior to offering my services as a Transformational Coach, it was essential to integrate and practice myself what I wished to offer my clients.
This inner journey thus becomes the foundation upon which I can rely to guide my clients towards their own fulfillment.
I genuinely believe that this profound inner work will trigger a metamorphosis in the lives of others if undertaken. There are no shortcuts, but it is worth it, as you will truly become the creator of your life experiences.
Through this unique pathway, you will discover the profound potential within yourself to embrace your true self, align with your core values, and live a life of purpose and fulfillment.
I hold a vision of a world where individuals recognize and embrace their innate power as conscious creators of their destinies. By embracing their role as self-leaders of their own transformation, they unlock their true potential and shape their lives according to their deepest desires and aspirations.
With love and Gratitude,
Fadila